Random thoughts on winning over that lady
Be it a lady you met on Wild Match (yes just because they are looking for the quick hookup, you still need some game) or trying to land that lady at the bar. If you believe you are going to fail then you will 90% of the time. Just like you want a woman who offers traits that you find appealing, a woman wants those in a man. She doesn’t want some sloppy sap who has no future.
If you don’t have a positive future going, then lie. Lie like a dog. You are looking to hookup, you are bringing her a bit of fantasy, and she is doing the same for you. If you are scoring a local hookup, don’t show up at the meeting place expecting sex like some horny little dog. Be picky, women can tell that if you are maybe considering that they are not worthy of sex then they’ll do whatever it is to get you in bed. Women are hit on all day long. The ones they throw themselves at are the ones they think they have to work for.
Good luck guys.